13 Jul in the hit ABC show “Desperate Housewives,” cheating destroys marriages because spouses lie and get caught.

But we discovered partners who say they will have found a real way to enjoy the company of others without the deception.

It's called the "lifestyle," or swinging, an arrangement in which couples have sex along with other partners, and there is no secrecy.

Brian and Olga Depenbrock got hitched four years ago. Now they operate a continuing business together, and after work they want to visit the club in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., called Trapeze, that also has branches in Atlanta and Philadelphia.Trapeze appears like other nightclubs, by having a party flooring, buffet, club.

But it's nothing like other groups, because in back there is a locker room where partners could possibly get undressed and, if they want, have intercourse in various rooms along with other partners -- or view one another in hot tubs. It is called moving or the "lifestyle."

Is not it immoral? Four partners I talked to said no, it is a a valuable thing.

" What we do is not unlawful. And I also don't think it's immoral," stated Brian.

Chris, who participates the lifestyle together with spouse, Lavonne, stated, " I do not desire to be 85 years of age, looking right back on my life, like, 'Man, I didn't have sufficient sex in my own life.' " similar to for the couples we chatted to, Chris and Lavonne did not want their names that are last.

Another couple that is swinging Bob and Tess, were college sweethearts.

They have been hitched 19 years, and five years into their marriage they chose to decide to try the approach to life.

"Tess ended up being the woman that is first ever kissed within my whole life.